Between men and women, do these details, often can make the relationship warm up

The details show the truth, and the heart is hidden in the subtleties.”

Between men and women, do these details, often can make the relationship warm up.

1. Share daily routines and listen to each other

As the saying goes, “The desire to share is the highest form of romance.”

Sharing daily routines is an extremely important part of a relationship.

If you are willing to talk about what you saw and heard during the day, no matter whether it is happy, disturbing, or ordinary nothing special, it shows that you have him in your heart and are willing to let him into your life.

For example, if you see a cute puppy, take a picture of it and send it to them. You eat at a really delicious restaurant and you think you must take him with you next time.

The other person is willing to listen and respond. This kind of communication can help you two understand each other better and bring you closer together.

On the other hand, if two people are not concerned about each other’s lives, are not willing to share, and do not want to listen to each other, the feelings will slowly cool.

Just like you excitedly talk about the fun things encountered today, but he is absent-minded, light perfunctory and should, such a way to get along, how can let the feelings warm up?

2. Create surprises and add fun

Someone said on Zhihu: “Life needs a sense of ritual, even more so in feelings.”

Surprise is about adding spice to a normal day.

No expensive gifts, no more pageantry, a small gesture can make the other person feel warm and happy.

For example, when your partner is tired, make him a hot cup of tea; When he gets home from work, prepare him a midnight snack that he likes.

Or on a special day, send a hand-made gift, may not be delicate, but full of your heart.

Just like in the TV drama “The next station is happiness”, the male protagonist Yuan Song will suddenly appear in front of the female He stars when she is tired of work, and take her to relax and relax.

But if you are always the same when you get along, without any surprises and fun, the day will become boring and boring, and the relationship will cool down.

3. Respect each other and leave space

When someone loves you, they respect your ideas and choices and give you plenty of personal space.

For example, if you like painting, he will support you to attend painting classes; You want to hang out with your friends, and he doesn’t stop you. Instead, he encourages you to relax.

And don’t interfere too much when he’s doing what he likes.

But if one partner is always trying to control the other, does not respect the other’s choices, does not give the other a little personal space, then the conflict will keep popping up.

For example, if you want to go out for a trip, he will stop you in every way and feel that it is a waste of money; He went out to play ball with his friends, and you kept calling him to come home.

This kind of getting along will only make each other feel depressed, and how can the feelings heat up?

Chuangyouka emotional message:

As someone said, “A good relationship is when two people grow together and become better together.”

Between men and women, do these details well, can make the relationship deeper and more stable.

When we manage it with our heart and care for it with love, feelings can always stay hot, and even get hotter