Ambiguous to the necessary process of love, not in accordance with the order, you will wait to cry

Why do you want to have a good relationship, only to find out that you just ran the highway?
Why do you always get let down when you take your relationship so seriously?
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The core reason is that the ambiguous order is wrong, just like cooking, it looks like a dish, but the difference between putting oil or putting food first is very big.

Today I said these three ambiguous necessary process, as long as the sisters obey to do, the relationship can climb, like the handsome man can not run away.

Ambiguous and familiar stage
Just like the novice process when you play the game, the dialogue is the default system dialogue, either exchange information, or talk about life, it seems boring, but as long as you are very rule-abiding through this stage, your relationship will become familiar.

The most important thing is not to leave too deep an impression, but to be calm and steady through this stage, not making mistakes is enough.

The skill at this stage is to share the desire, brush to the favorite drama, you can cut a picture to share with him, eat delicious snacks and take a photo to share with him, and then find that the weather is very good on the road today, directly a girl’s self shot sent in the past.

As long as he has not seen you like this, curiosity and emotion will explode, why? Because you are showing a new self, is a new information, the content of the picture information density is very high, so that the curiosity of the familiar stage can reach a relatively high degree.

Extreme pull stage
At this stage, there is mutual affection or even mutual affection, but there is still no definite relationship.

But the sisters most like to make mistakes is to control their hands, always can’t help looking for a man, always can’t help taking him as the first, whether speaking or doing things, everything is considered for him, you are very careful and considerate.

But you are too direct, and suddenly people guess that you like him very much, then he will not have the idea of continuing to promote the relationship with you, because he knows that you will take the initiative, and the senior sisters will pull repeatedly.

There are two skills here: online enthusiasm and offline presence.

First of all, the mouth must be sweet when online. “The book says that the boys ask what you want.”

No matter what topic he talks about, you can extend to whether you want me, whether you like me, when he wonders why you always understand this, the purpose has reached, you are sweet, but he is confused.

The role of the offline presence is to let him have imagination, and 100 times of pulling online is not as good as an offline casual physical touch.

You put on elaborate nude makeup, you get nice nails, you wear a little sling, you hold your hand when you cross the street, you let him tie your hair down when you eat, and that’s it.

Wait for you to finish the offline date, and then restore the sweet mouth of the seductive leprechaun online, this pull, the man will be elusive and very excited, will not pull, find me.

Definite relation
If you are satisfied with the previous relationship, then at this time you can release availability.

This matter is divided into two levels, behavior is to cooperate with each other’s actions and dating, he asks you out, you try to agree, he wants to get closer to you also cooperate, when speaking, you can express some affirmation to him.

For example, if he volunteers that he is very ritualistic, you can say, “I kind of like a ritualistic boy.”

In a word, make the other person more sure of your liking, but not 100% sure of your liking.

Before he has not formally confessed, can not go home with him, can not do the couple can do, and can not confess earlier than he.

What you have to do is give him the opportunity, give him the window, but if he doesn’t try to take it, it can’t be given all the time, otherwise it will seem too cheap.

This is the core framework of the pulling stage, as long as the sisters remember clearly, the relationship can hold a handle and easily have a sweet and high-quality relationship. If there’s anything else you can’t figure out, I’m always here.