It’s not sweet anymore? 3 tips to warm up and keep love fresh

Some people may say two or three days, or it may be a year and a half. In fact, no matter how close the couple love each other, get along for a long time, there will be all kinds of friction and quarrels.

If you can not grasp the sense of proportion and scale of the quarrel, do not pay attention to some details in the feelings, then the feelings will inevitably fade, what should be done at this time, in order to rekindle the fire of love?

First, learn to tolerate each other

If you want to make the relationship sweeter, you should pay attention to everything more tolerant of each other. If you are in the relationship, always find fault with each other, haggling over every ounce, then your relationship is difficult to be happy for a long time.

In this world, there is no perfect relationship, there is no perfect person. We all have strengths and weaknesses. If you want to make each other’s feelings sweet and lasting, you must learn to treat each other with an inclusive and understanding attitude.

Life can not avoid conflicts or contradictions, if both sides do not try to understand, to tolerate, blindly competitive, then the conflict will only become more and more intense.

Therefore, for women, in the case of small contradictions or small quarrels between two people, you can make full use of female charm, appropriately spoiled, and do some things to alleviate contradictions.

For example, when you are not comfortable, the other party does not take the initiative to cook, but also lying on the sofa to play mobile phone, this time you feel very uncomfortable, but if you directly accuse him may cause conflict, this time you can say to the other party: “Husband, I am so dizzy now, want to rest for a while, if I wake up to eat your own porridge.”

When you do not blame him and reasonably express your needs, the other party generally will not refuse, and the contradiction will be eliminated from the root.

Second, make life full of ritual

The sense of ceremony is created by injecting the emotion of the other person, and the important thing is that the heart can bring a pleasant feeling to the person, making the ordinary day shine.

Do not because with each other for a long time, gradually forget the passion of love, the sense of ritual is a very important thing.

In fact, when you walk by a flower shop after work, you do not need to buy 99 flowers, as long as one flower can make each other special happy, because the partner cares not about the number, but your mind, can let him feel your love for him.

For example, you come home from work, cook his favorite dish, put the flowers on the table, sit on the sofa and wait for him to come back, and the moment he opens the door is also happy and satisfied.

At the same time, do not be stingy with your sweet words, especially in the face of marriage in the plain life of salt sauce vinegar tea, sweet words are more like an indispensable seasoning.

You can say to the other person: “I have been preparing this meal for a long time, although it is very hard, but cooking for the person you like is very romantic.” The other party must be very happy after hearing it.

Third, trust each other

Trust is the foundation of all feelings, whether it is friendship, family or love. When we trust someone, we feel more powerful and less alone in the face of difficulties.

It’s hard for lovers to stay together without trust. Whether a love is sweet or not depends on whether we trust each other.

For example, some people are very insecure, want their partner to always report their whereabouts, distrust their partner, and always suspect that the other side will do something to betray them.

For example, when the other party makes an appointment to go fishing with friends on the weekend, she will say: “Husband, you still need to take a picture of me every hour, otherwise I will worry.” This will make the other person feel suffocated, think that you don’t believe him, and from the bottom of your heart want to stay away from you.

Only when we trust each other with our partners can we reduce many conflicts and conflicts, and even when we encounter some conflicts, it will be solved in most cases. So, give him a little more credit.

In any case, if you want a sweet marriage and a beautiful life, two people need to respect and understand each other, although the feelings are full of all kinds of changes, but since you have chosen to be together, it is necessary to learn to cherish, so as to keep love fresh, so that every day is a hot love period.