A dating machine that makes him feel good the first time they meet

The first, of course, is to establish the authority of the article (by the way, Versailles).

Before being trusted by friends, she participated in two large-scale speed dating (more than 100 people), and was voted as “popular girl” both times.

On the social field, I think I am not the most beautiful, nor the most active, but why can I get the most affection from the opposite sex?

You don’t need to dress up or share anything unusual to make a good first impression. The following is my actual test, summed up a few simple skills, students if with the “flirting method” (linked at the end of the article) more practice, you can multiply the power of oh.

1. Fearless eye contact

I read a scientific study where strangers were asked to look at each other, and after the test they found that prolonged eye contact led to feelings of affection, even liking. As long as you are talking to the other person, look him in the eyes carefully and intently for more than five seconds, then look away slightly to his nose or mouth to avoid discomfort, but remember to move back. Xiao Xian thinks this is the easiest way to make the other person feel good.

2. Lively expression – the essence of laughter

A woman with a lively expression will make people feel like they want to be close. During the conversation, show expressions that fit the situation, for example, when he is talking about the death of a pet, he shows an expression of regret; He was showing off his great achievements, so he showed his admiration. Invest if you can, invest if you don’t! Without a little acting, you expect love?

How to laugh is also a learning. It is not always good to keep a smile, the process of smile from nothing is the moment of charm. Please make sure that the other party witnessed the whole process of the formation of the smile, let him know that you are smiling because of him, and this smile is his hard work to win the trophy! Men will be because of the sense of accomplishment in a woman, and have a favorable impression of Poisons.

In addition to providing an exclusive caution, is to cover the mouth smile. The boyfriend said that on the first date, he noticed that I covered my mouth when I smiled, and he felt that I was both elegant and had the bashful sense of a little girl. I don’t even notice this habit, so I’m unconsciously charming, you know?

3. Physical contact

This is definitely a no-brainer, and there’s nothing more evocative than actual meat on meat. But beware! Casually touching or slapping others is easy to be seen as a flirtatious woman. I hate it when some of my female friends slap me on the body while we’re talking, you know?

The “motivation” to touch is the key to avoiding disgust. Xiao Xian feels that the best motivation is based on “helping each other gently”! For example, when walking on the road, gently pull his arm to prevent him from hitting a bicycle on the side of the road. Or at the dinner table, when the other person spilled a drink or food fell, with a tissue to help him wipe, are people will be heart-pounding physical contact.

4. Make them feel like the main character

I read a study where they arranged for subjects to chat and found that the longer the subjects expressed their opinions, the more they enjoyed the conversation and the more interesting the person they were talking to.

其实大家最喜欢聊的话题都是自己，试着去探索对方喜欢聊的话题，让他成为聚光灯下的焦点，鼓励他不断地谈，能让他感到被重视，期待能和你多相处。

请记住，真正好的对话技巧是提出有趣的问题，而不是拼命尝试说一些有趣的事情